physical pain

A friend once said that in order for mental pain to go away, you need physical pain, something which shakes you to the core and awakens you. Physical pain did not do away with my mental struggle for the past two months, however it did leave me with a feeling of awakening. What is meant to stay, stays; what needs to go away, does so on its own. You cannot force anybody, or anything for that matter. Everything functions according to laws sometimes out of your reception. And that is good. Because you cannot control everything. But if you want something to belong to you forever, it does belong to you forever. Love is not something that happens to you, it is something you create. Love can end, loving never ends. There is no nausea, but i suffer from headaches ever since i fell. So some other doctors will have to be consulted i guess..we shall see..